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Welcome to the Wisdom of the World - Joan Chittister
Chapter 5 - “How Can I Learn to Let Go of the Past?”
“We
(too) create for ourselves what we think we need to
make the perfect life. We
shape it and
form it. We pursue
it and persist at
it. We fence
ourselves around with what
we believe are the only things that can ever really make us happy. And we cling to them.” (p. 36)
In what ways does this statement speak to me and the
reality of my life today? To
what do I
cling?
Throughout
life we all experience losses.
I make a list of losses I have experienced in my life,
such as, but not limited to:
Loss of
persons significant to me through death
Ending
of relationships/friendships
Loss of
job/work
Loss of
health
Loss of
material possessions
Loss of
innocence
Loss of
hope
Loss of
faith
How
did I respond initially to each loss?
Have I
been able to let go and move on?
If so,
what made this possible? How
is my life
different today?
If not,
to what do I hold on to and why?
“There
is really no such thing as the past; there is only
the present out of which to make a life.”
(p. 37)
What does this statement mean to me?
Do I cling to the past?
In what ways?
What would be helpful for me to move on?
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